Eli Finkel

📢MY MAINSTAGE #TEDTALK JUST DROPPED📢

In 12.5 minutes, this talk distills the most important things I've learned in my 29 years as a relationship scientist.

Enjoy!

(And please share)

The secret to lasting love (Eli J. Finkel | TED2026) ted.com/talks/eli_j_fi… via @TEDTalks

What if some of the most important parts of compatibility don't exist until two people build them together?

My @TEDTalks talk on the private world a couple creates.

Full talk: ted.com/talks/eli_j_fi…

@NorthwesternU @KelloggSchool

A lovely little surprise this morning: My TED talk, *The Secret to Lasting Love*, is featured on the homepage of TED.com.

The talk draws on decades of relationship science (and pop culture) to explore a question I've been fascinated by for years:

--> How can we build flourishing relationships in which the individual partners also flourish?

I'm delighted that the ideas are finding an audience.

Here's the talk: ted.com/talks/eli_j_fi…

The new book from @AdamMGrant drops tomorrow.

This is the book I've been waiting for -- the one where Adam dives deep into the science and practice of love and relationships. And the book is very much worth the wait. Check it out!

adamgrant.net/book/vibe/

Excellent article on grand romantic gestures!

Huge kudos to @ProfBohns, not only on this @TIME Magazine article, but also on the publication of her MAGNIFICENT new book, "Should I Say Something"!

If you want to know when to speak up, and when to stay quiet, this is *the* book!