Viktor

Paying on the date: needy man vs high value man

As a needy man:

Her: (the bill comes)
Him: (quickly grabs it, insists on paying everything, and says “I got you” more than once)

As a high value man:

Only boring people wait to be chosen. Attractive people do this:

When she gives mixed signals: weak man vs high value man

As a weak man:

Her: (texts warmly one day, then goes cold the next)
Him: “Are you okay? Did I do something?” or “You were different yesterday.”

As a high value man:

When she mentions her ex: weak man vs high value man

As a weak man:

Her: (casually brings up her ex)
Him: “Oh, what happened between you two?” or “Do you still talk to him?”

As a high value man:

Sometimes you won't really understand life until something breaks you. Tragedy has a way of opening your eyes. It shows you who you truly are, and it changes how you see everything.

That pain can either make you bitter or make you better. But when life gets good again, you will hold it differently, because now you understand what it cost you to get there.