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I crossed 100 body count last week. This is what it taught me:
1) if you take care of yourself as a man, you will age like wine. I date better women every year, and it gets easier every year.
2) you want to avoid a feast-or-famine environment. The ideal number of women to entertain simultaneously, for me personally, is two: one that you're already sleeping with and one that you're working towards sleeping with.
3) casual sex is not the answer. The goal is to find a woman you genuinely enjoy being with and who then makes you lose desire to date other women.
4) friends-with-benefits situations never work for longer than 2 months. Someone is always getting hurt, even if you communicate very transparently.
5) I've been with everything from influencers to aristocrat girls to hippie sluts. All women are unique snowflakes, individual in their own way, but still 90% the same. Common patterns work.
6) if you think a girl is out of your league, she will think so too. the moment you feel like you're trying too hard, you should already walk away from it.
7) women don't really learn how to fuck better as they age. 22-year-olds and 40-year-olds will give you a relatively similar experience. Especially if you are relatively dominant in bed
8) women and sex are hygiene factors, meaning that the presence of sex will not make you happy, but the absence of sex over a longer period of time will make you frustrated.
9) Dating and handling women is a skill, like any other. You learn it in practice and reflection. the more you fuck up, the more u learn
10) your first intuition about a girl is usually right.
11) if you are a moderately successful, moderately healthy man, you can bag any woman you want, it all boils down to confidence and the ability to handle women.
12) relatively few women are open to one-night stands. You usually ruin your chances by pushing too hard. Relax, and they will hook up with you by themselves.
Ask me whatever you like
1) if you take care of yourself as a man, you will age like wine. I date better women every year, and it gets easier every year.
2) you want to avoid a feast-or-famine environment. The ideal number of women to entertain simultaneously, for me personally, is two: one that you're already sleeping with and one that you're working towards sleeping with.
3) casual sex is not the answer. The goal is to find a woman you genuinely enjoy being with and who then makes you lose desire to date other women.
4) friends-with-benefits situations never work for longer than 2 months. Someone is always getting hurt, even if you communicate very transparently.
5) I've been with everything from influencers to aristocrat girls to hippie sluts. All women are unique snowflakes, individual in their own way, but still 90% the same. Common patterns work.
6) if you think a girl is out of your league, she will think so too. the moment you feel like you're trying too hard, you should already walk away from it.
7) women don't really learn how to fuck better as they age. 22-year-olds and 40-year-olds will give you a relatively similar experience. Especially if you are relatively dominant in bed
8) women and sex are hygiene factors, meaning that the presence of sex will not make you happy, but the absence of sex over a longer period of time will make you frustrated.
9) Dating and handling women is a skill, like any other. You learn it in practice and reflection. the more you fuck up, the more u learn
10) your first intuition about a girl is usually right.
11) if you are a moderately successful, moderately healthy man, you can bag any woman you want, it all boils down to confidence and the ability to handle women.
12) relatively few women are open to one-night stands. You usually ruin your chances by pushing too hard. Relax, and they will hook up with you by themselves.
Ask me whatever you like
