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Happy New Year everyone! May this year bring you what you deserve.
Happy New Year everyone! May this year bring you what you deserve.
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The financial ABUSE in marriages is hardly ever talked about. But that's EXACTLY what it is. ABUSE.
I was the wife in this. Held to him thru money.
Which then held me to the psychological, emotional, verbal abuses.
They all tie in together.
Abuse is not JUST physical.
I was the wife in this. Held to him thru money.
Which then held me to the psychological, emotional, verbal abuses.
They all tie in together.
Abuse is not JUST physical.
Wife: “They offered me $180,000 a year.”View quoted post on X
Husband: “Tell them no.”
Wife: “What?”
Husband: “Turn it down.”
She laughed because she thought he was joking.
He wasn’t.
Wife: “I’ve been interviewing for this job for two months.”
Husband: “And now you got it. Congrats. Tell them no.”
Wife: “Why would I do that?”
Husband: “Because we already discussed you working.”
Wife: “No. YOU decided I shouldn’t work.”
Husband: “Same difference.”
Wife: “Not even close.”
He closed his laptop.
Husband: “Why do you suddenly need a career so bad?”
Wife: “Suddenly? I worked before we got married.”
Husband: “And then I started making enough for both of us.”
Wife: “That doesn’t mean I stopped wanting my own career.”
Husband: “You got everything you need.”
Wife: “Then why do I gotta ask you before I buy anything?”
Husband: “Because I make the money.”
She went quiet.
Husband: “What?”
Wife: “Say that again.”
Husband: “I said I make the money.”
Wife: “Exactly.”
That’s when the argument changed.
She reminded him she’d tried getting a part-time job the year before.
He complained the hours would interfere with dinner.
She tried freelancing from home.
He told her it was taking too much attention away from him.
Then she applied for a remote position.
Husband: “We don’t need strangers from your job calling the house all day.”
Wife: “They’d be calling my laptop.”
Husband: “You know what I mean.”
She eventually stopped applying.
Until this $180K offer came.
Wife: “I’m accepting it.”
Husband: “No, you’re not.”
Wife: “Watch me.”
Husband: “And who’s paying the mortgage when you start acting independent?”
Wife: “What does my job have to do with the mortgage?”
Husband: “Everything.”
Wife: “Are you threatening me?”
Husband: “I’m reminding you how comfortable your life is.”
Wife: “Comfortable?”
Husband: “House paid. Car paid. Cards paid. You don’t gotta worry about nothing.”
Wife: “Except having money that’s actually mine.”
He stared at her.
Husband: “We’re married. There is no ‘mine.’”
Wife: “Funny how that only applies when it’s MY money.”
She accepted the job that night.
The next morning, her credit card stopped working..............
@fordnation with everything in my chest and whole heartedly: GET FUCKED.
Career colleges were telling you about problems since 2023. You ignored them. Now, you've "paused" thousands of students applications, like mine, with no clear next steps. And I have no idea if I
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Career colleges were telling you about problems since 2023. You ignored them. Now, you've "paused" thousands of students applications, like mine, with no clear next steps. And I have no idea if I
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When you made a decision to do something, and follow thru on it, and then still get made to feel bad about it because you made the decision that was best for you.
I know the person didn't mean it to come across that way, but I'm still... UGH...
I know the person didn't mean it to come across that way, but I'm still... UGH...