Diane Yap

Because having children puts an inherently unequal burden on mother vs father, women should be much pickier about who they reproduce with:

1. Only bestow the honor of fatherhood on a man who eagerly tries to do 100% of everything for you. That's your only hope of coming close to 50/50 when you have kids.

2. Don't reproduce with a man who hasn't shown that he's a man of his word who keeps his commitments and promises to you.

3. If he's low effort and low energy before kids, don't expect that to get better after kids. It will probably get worse.

4. If he lacks self-control, e.g. his emotions, addictions or finances, he's not a good option.

5. If he makes excuses like "I have a job" to avoid shared responsibilities, you'll just bring extra hassle to your life if you reproduce with him.

6. If you aren't the absolute light of his life, the person he would do anything for and give up anything just to be with, it won't be worthwhile for you and there's no reason you should help him continue his genetic line.

Imagine touching a guy who took other girls on dates for free.

Women are 4-6x as likely to be murdered by a male partner than a stranger.

Women are 3-4x as likely to be raped by a male partner than a stranger.

Men do not get credit for “protection” given these stats. The highest risk to her safety comes from her own male partner.

When I was in high school I convinced my boyfriend that hernia tests were sexual assault.

“Your doctor cups your nuts and tells you to turn your head and cough? He’s a child molester. He just wants to touch your nuts and he doesn’t want you looking at him when he does it!”

Women aren’t men. They don’t know if they’re into you just by looking at a pic. You could still give her the ick in 1000x ways, so you need to pay handsomely for every ounce of her time and attention.